I dont want to be your friend , miss

So I was explaining this to some ignorant girls who never thought of this situation like I presented. I disclosed my view on the ever so popular and seldomly talked about topic of " I only like you as a friend so lets be friends"....

which is fair and its been said many of times to me and from me ... here's where I differentiate from most. I feel the rejected person has the right to say " na , Im cool , thanks anyways...caio"... because as I explained to the ladies , hypothetically as much as say I want to just be friends with rejected girl , she has the right to say " I just want to fuck"... fair? yes.

Me , I have lots of friends and I am happy. Im not going to parties and bars looking at females thinking "lets be friends".. Im there caz I want to fuck. Relationships and friendships? dunno , dont care , if it happens it happens but its not what Im planning. Make sense? of course.

So in turn when somebody says "lets be friends".. the other person has the right to say " fuck no... just wanted to fuck you"..its a two way street. So again hypothetically I dont like you as a girlfriend , well she can say I dont like you as a friend.. you're arrogant , annoying and an asswipe... understandable? Yes.


See , I converted many people with this explanation and gave them a new perspective and understanding on why rejected people are not obligated to be my or your friend. Take off the hypocrite crown and think of it like this: If you were rejected , are you fine with just being friends and never looking at that person "that way" again? ... or do you play along with being "friends" and hope to win them over eventually and ruin their relationships with others.. is that more pathetic and worse than coming off like a scorned rejectee? Yes.

Ask somebody out , if they say no.. perfect , if they say no lets be friends... tell them no thanks.. and suddenly you will cure your rejection within a heart beat and move along the "moving on " process in a hurry. There's even a therapuetic justifcation to it.

.... doesnt it all make sense from so many different ways????

I think so.